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Blair • My momma and little brother are my guardian angels🦋💛
So I'm about to be 18 in 3 week, and I've been with my boyfriend since August. My boyfriend and I are sexually active and it's one of those things where I know my mother knows but we just don't discuss it. I'm on birth control and use condoms. But today, she basically told me that I have no self respect if I have sex with my boyfriend? Like how do you even convince you're mom you're not a whore for sleeping with your boyfriend. Advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you so much.