heartbroken I have to switch daycares 😭

You guys I am devastated. I returned to work from my maternity leave in January (I'm a teacher). I wish I could be a stay at home mom we just could never afford living in only one income. Anyway, it broke my heart to go back but the only saving grace was that I LOVED my daycare for my son. It is a home daycare right down the street from my school. He has been there for about 4 months now and we were finally in a good groove, one of my friends babies goes there and I just completely felt comfortable there. Well long story short, the state told her she had one too many infants. Most days she just has my baby boy and my friends baby girl, and then 2 toddlers. Well the one day the state popped in for a random visit, she was also watching her sisters 13 month old. She only watches him now and then and usually it's on the day my baby doesn't go (my hubby works from home one day a week and my son stays with him). The state said he is still considered an infant until 15 months and that whoever the last infant to sign up has to go (my baby). She was so sad that she had to tell me Thomas can't come anymore bc she loves him too. I'm not upset with her she honestly didn't know that regulation had changed (she's been running her daycare for over 10 years). So now I am scrambling to find a new daycare and I'm so sad about it. I don't know if I'll ever find someone else I trust enough. And no, we don't have any family that can help us. My mom passed away and my dad is a full time landscaper. My in laws live 3 hours away. Anyone else ever go through this?