what's wrong with me?

Question

What is wrong with me? My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. I've gone down on him sooooooo many times, but when I ask him to go down on me he always has an excuse. He'll say, not right now but later, or, it's too fuzzy, so I'll shave for him and everything but he still won't. Any suggestions?

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Maybe he's just not into it. Communicate with him and talk about the real reasons. It's good to know what each of you are comfortable with.

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Maybe he doesn't like going down on people, all you can do is ask him to, and ask him why he won't. You can't force him 🤷🏽‍♀️

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I have the same issue with my boyfriend. We have been together for almost 2 years and he won't help me get off but it's always him and yes it's very frustrating 😖

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He may not be comfortable with it, or he's afraid. Talk to him about it. If he doesn't want to, then he doesn't want to. I feel like it's unfair for women to say stop doing it to him if he won't do it to you. If you don't feel comfortable doing it either, then yeah you shouldn't do it. But if you don't mind, and he doesn't like it, what is the harm?

what's wrong with me?

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