how do I stop??

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I've been taking birth control for almost 9 years now. Since I was 18 so I don't even know what it's like not to be on it. 
My question is I've been talking to my SO about stopping to start TTC soon. How do I stop?? Do I literally just not take any anymore or do I have to wait till after the sugar pills?? How long after stopping will I get my normal natural period ?