am I over reacting?

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Okay my bf and I got engaged on the 24th of last month and we've been on cloud nine 🙌🏻 
But today while we were watching a movie I jokingly got on his phone and opened his Snapchat I said "ohh babe lets see who your talking to" I totally trust him we just joke around saying stuff like that to one another.
But then he says with a straight face "get off my phone!" Keep in mind he checks my phone while I sleep (he's told me he does) so then I got defensive and said "uhh no" when he told me to get off his phone he then proceeds to snatch his phone outta my hand and calls me annoying and that he hates when I do that "shit" and tells me just to check it when he's sleeping..
I started to cry and get extremely mad cause now Im thinking what if he is talking to someone!? Otherwise why get mad about it?? I may have been to dramatic about all this cause I threw my ring at him and told him "take your ring back I don't wanna marry someone who's gonna be rude and call me names especially someone who's acting sketchy!"

Ladies! Am I in the wrong!? HELP!

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I would be livid! And I would also take exactly what he says and check while he's sleeping. (You shouldn't have to but maybe this will help). If you're getting married then I think you have every right to know what's on his phone, especially when he reacted that way to you joking around. Sorry this happened 😓 maybe he was just in a mood and there isn't really anything going on? I hope that's the case for your sake! Try talking to him once he's calmed down maybe?

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I would be upset. But I have cheated on my ex bf and I would hate it when he would ask for my phone cuz I was hiding stuff.... so yes. Be upset and be concerned cuz he's prob hiding something.....

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Hes definitely guilty of something. He only wants you to check it while hes asleep cause he has a chance to delete shit before bed. Keep that in mind and dont be taken for a fool. Get on that phone during the day when he isnt paying attention cause he is acting sketchy as fuck 🔪😤

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I would be pisssssed! I threw my ring at my husband when we were engaged once but that was because he had really bad anger issues and I said either you find help or we are not getting married. He found help and we have been happily married for 5 years now. When we first started dating I did find messages to other girls that were extra friendly and we talked about it and I told him that's not something I will tolerate and asked him how would he feel if someone sent me that message. He stopped and since then no issues. I checked his phone messages and I didn't do it jokingly when were dating. I was serious because you never know and it helped me ease my mind. He understood and at first it was like "why???" But eventually he understood where I was coming from. Now that we are married we don't worry about it at all lol we share messages and videos on Facebook all the time. I trust him enough. If he decides to mess around behind my back that's his loss not mine and we both think the same way.

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Coming from someone who hates anyone touching my phone, I'm not hiding anything I just hate people reading what I'm saying to people, I wouldn't be mad.

If my fiancé told me not to touch his phone I would ask why and see if he acts weird and then I would push it if I didn't like his response but you're engaged to someone I'd hope you can trust them

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Sounds sketchy hmm...

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I'm sorry😔 I'd feel the same way. I'd wait it out a little so you can calm down and collect your thoughts and then talk to him. Hope everything works out!

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