ummm ANAL???

Question

I dont know how to have anal with my boyfriend. We've tried sticking it in but everytime we do, IT HURTS! We've tried lube and everything. It just hurts sooo bad, but I want to pleasure him, or at least try it once. What's the easiest way and least painful ways?! HELP

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Well it's gonna hurt is all I can say. After a minute it doesn't hurt reallt so make it easier to reach that point I can suggest:

Lube
Numbing Lube (Personally haven't tried)
Warming Up (Fingers, anal beads, small toy)
Relaxing 
Going Slow

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Try with fingers first (like a couple times with just finger play), still with lube. Then try fingers then with him inside you.

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So anal is something that you have to work on, if you rush it you're not gonna love, and you could hurt yourself. I do suggest visiting the Reddit page r/sex and looking into the many walk through a people have suggested for first time anal. I've had anal sex with past partners and I've learned to take it very slow. My SO and I have been building up to having anal for months now. It doesn't have to take that long but we like moving slow. Try different sized toys and plugs and plenty of lube. Also I know the instinct is for him to pump but sometimes it's better if something just sits still and your body can acclimate to the feeling. My biggest advice is to get a small plug, work it in slow and easy and then have regular PiV sex. This will help your body relax in the future by associating orgasm with anal play. (Also remind your SO if they get too hasty or pushy to rush that anything that goes in you should be allowed in them lol this should keep the process slow and fun and is also a joke, don't have sex with pushy and rude jerkfaces.)

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It doesnt have to hurt. Anal with my husband never hurts. Use lube and chill out before and during. Just get into the mood and it wont be super painful. Anal play is very important and relaxes u. Just be calm, have communication and it wont be terrible!

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It's gona hurt , no matter what try lube and have him so SUPER SLOW

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Different toys and lots of foreplay can help but from an experienced person with anal, it hurts 😂 take it slow too

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ok here's what we do🙌🏻😂
it will hurt like hell in the beginning but it will be fine shortly after you get over the first few minutes. 
when me and my SO are doing anal we use lube and i absolutely have to use my vibrator because it keeps my mind off the fact that my man is back there. it might sound strange but it helps me 100% and if your enjoying it and he's enjoying it to it makes it so much better. but he has to go slow until you get used to it.

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I have been doing anal for awhile now and it still hurts,just relax and be in control you tell him when it's ok to keep penetrating

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Best thing I found to start off with until I get used to it is to be on top so I'M in control and can go as slow as needed. Even still it's going to hurt/be uncomfortable until you get used to it

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Start with warm ups. Butt Plugs to stretch a little, and anal lube (numbing) help. I like to start with edging vaginal sex, then going to anal

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