I need opinions. My "best friend" is getting married next June. When we were little girls we promised each other that we'd be each other's maid of honor when we grew up and got married. Well, I got married December 2015 and of course she was mine...I wouldn't have picked anyone else. Well I just found out that I'm not her maid of honor. I'm not even a bridesmaid. I'm so very hurt and I feel dumb for being hurt over this but I am. Would anyone else be hurt, or am I overreacting?