carrying high or low? idk how to tell

Shelby • Mommy to a sweet little girl 🌸. •September 8, 2017 👶🏽💕• Baby #2 October 2021
I've always heard the old wives tales about if you carry higher it's a girl, if you carry lower it's a boy; but I guess I just have trouble identifying if I'm carrying high or low. I fee stupid for asking, but how can I not tell? 
I already know what I'm having, but can you tell me what you think I'm having and if I'm carrying high or low?