Do you and your SO use toys? my SO has talked about it with me before and i wouldn't mind using some but my only major concern is him. he is very ashamed of his penis (tmi i guess). which i don't understand why he is great in bed and he's not tiny at all! my concern is that he'll be discouraged and start judging himself and become jealous. i don't want any of that at all so idk what to do. i'm fine either way using a toy or not and he said he's fine either way too but i can't help but feel as if he's lying just to get me to try it.