I feel like my mama is trying to take over and my baby is not even here yet. My mama wants me to bring the baby to my home town every week and come get it on the weekends. I don't agree with that because it seems like I would be throwing my baby off on her and not raising it on my own. She insists on having my pediatrician as my baby's as well and I don't want that. I am not 18 like she was when she had me I am 24. I'm in college and I have to work. So does the father. She does not want the baby around the father's family and they are closer. And she does not want it in a daycare. I know I would need help and I love my mother but I don't think this is right. Can someone please give me advice.