how do you keep going like this?

Heather
Each month since my period has come after my miscarriage, I'm more and more discouraged and sad. It seems that everyone around is able to have happy, healthy pregnancies (I know that's not true, but I'm having a bit of a pity party). I'm not sure if this next month I should try even harder with OPKs, etc, or just try not to think about it and see if that reduces my stress. Any advice or encouragement would be appreciated! This will be cycle 11 TTC.