do you feel judged if your in sweats, no makeup, no bra etc if someone walks in the house?

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I just moved to a "aunts" house.
 Her step daughter (which is like the same age about me) walked into the house, we hadn't seen each other since we were kids or maybe teens, we don't talk often so I just gave her a big smile she didn't even achknowledge me.. I'm not the type to get "butt hurt". But I've been kinda depressed for a year, real low in life, just gone through a breakup. Like I'm not going to look all jazzed up at home..

How would you act towards her in the future now?

I normally just pretend like things like that never happen and just wait to speak to them again or if they would me.

EDIT: Oh my god you guys. Of course I didn't expect some reunion when I stated we were never good friends in the fucking first place or hadn't talked much since even seeing from years ago. But it's just MANNERS to achknowledge someone back.

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You all haven't seen each other since kids. Do you expect her to hug up on you and be up your butt about things? She may of felt uncomfortable about everything. Why not invite her out and let her know you weren't feeling well that's why you didn't talk.

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I don't get how her not acknowledging you has anything to do with how your dressed? Why don't you try talking to her to catch up and get to know each other better since it's been awhile since you both haven't seen each other in a while. A lot probably has changed since then and maybe she just acted like that because she was having a bad day and didn't really feel like talking.

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I'm sure what you where wearing had anything to do with anything you said your not close and don't talk ? So what was she supposed to do?and why would you act any different when she's around ?

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All you did was smile at her; if you want a response you should say hello.

You're moving into her space, not the other way around--you should make an effort and see what happens.

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Be an adult and ignore it.

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She just sounds rude. I'm sure it has nothing to do with how you look

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I'm a little confused on how the way you're dressed has anything to do with them not acknowledging you. I'd feel weird if someone didn't acknowledge me in the room, but you could of said hi first?

As for wearing sweats and no make up and no bra I go out in town like that lmao and I don't care. I have small boobs so not super noticeable when I'm braless

do you feel judged if your in sweats, no makeup, no bra etc if someone walks in the house?

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