Anyone else fed up with husband/partner?

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I know it's considered somewhat normal to resent your husband a little after the baby is born, but is anyone else a little nervous about whether or not your marriage is going to make it through this? We've tried talking and a few counseling sessions but sometimes I'm not sure if we will ever be in a good place again.

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This is why so many marriages end after children are born. You have to have respect for each other and how you do things. You also have to communicate with that person in a way that explains what you mean without offending. For example, my husband went grocery shopping, we were planning on having stir fry which I make with fresh vegetables. He bought a bag of frozen stir fry veggies that are not even the type of vegetables I normally put in stir fry. I am at fault for this because instead of saying 'will you get XYX fresh vegetables for stir fry' I said 'get veggies for stirfry' I can't get frustrated with him when it was my miscommunication. So what I said was 'thank you for picking up the veggies, the next time you go to the store for me, would you mind checking to see if the fresh vegetables we normally use are available, I prefer to cut up the fresh ones rather than frozen because I like them to stay a little more crisp.' He said 'oh sure, I thought these would make your life easier, but you're right about the crisp part, my bad' and hat was the end. It's alllllll about how you say things.

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We are also about to start counseling. 😔

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I don't have advice but I feel your pain. We have all odds against us, as in we married at 19, before having our first kid. Married for 9 1/2 years as of now. Neither of us went to college so we struggle financiayy...faith in God & my children are the only thing keeping me with him. Message me if you ever need to vent! But I encourage you both to find a church if you haven't, it doesn't make things perfect or all rainbows and butterflies after but it helps.

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Same boat. 🙁

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i don't agree with my partners decisions, or how his family chose to raise their kids. it's an every other day thing that i'm questioning our relationship.

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I am with you. I'm not sure that we'll get through it either.

Anyone else fed up with husband/partner?

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