So my husband and I just recently got married, in fact it'll be one month tomorrow.. we did a courthouse ceremony because I am pregnant.. we were engaged a few months prior and obviously knew marriage was in the works and that we both wanted it. We decided on the courthouse now because we're having a baby and because of personal beliefs as well as religious ones, we want to be married for the sake of our child. I knew this when we decided to do it, but I also was SO thrilled to be marrying my best friend. I love him so much, even when he's a pain in my ass! Of course we have our differences and what not but personally I've been trying to work on myself because I've been known to say some really harsh things in the heat of the moment (that I NEVER mean) but they just come out because he'll make me upset and hurt my feelings and I always knew just what to say to hurt his.. but, I've changed that.. at least I've been trying. Anyway, today we were genuinely just messing around today (or so I thought) sometimes were just mean but joking about it.. and I didn't even say anything bad, and then he just blurts out "l haven't liked you for so long! It's ridiculous, honestly I hate you sometimes" so I said "okay why did you propose and then marry me?" And he said "I did it for the baby and I can see now that it was a mistake" and I just said "wow ok" and then I proceeded to cry for several hours.