Is this okay?

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Me and this guy have been talking I really like him, he really likes me, he's 24 I'm 18, but he has a 3 year old daughter.. it doesn't bother me but it's just that means there's always going to be another women involved.

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You're both of age, so there's no issue

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Just make sure you're prepared to get sucked into any drama. You're young and I wouldnt want to see you dragged down by that baby mama mess.

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It depends on whether you can handle dating someone with a kid or not because it won't be the same as dating someone with less responsibility. Not everyone can handle it and that's okay, but you should figure that out before jumping all in.

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I'm gonna just put this out there because everything isn't rainbows and butterflies. It is not meant to crush your spirit. I am currently with someone who has children with another woman. She is a monster. Constantly talking bad about their father then denying it later when its brought up. She will always be around, football games, concerts, anything the child does, even when they are grown. You will never have a say in what happens with them, unless y'all get married and work that out. Basically, it could be the worst decision you ever made. This woman drives me nuts, and I didn't even make children with her. She is sooo high maintenance. Keep in mind, that if y'all decide to have children one day, the decisions that his ex makes in raising her kids will directly effect your children. So if you don't like how that child is being raised (the way she's disciplined or not disciplined for that matter, general opinions on life that her mother has), then I would say forget about it. I was so optimistic in the beginning, now I have to defend my beliefs on abortion and all that other shit when they come over, and all I do is give them the facts while their mother fills their head with lies. I know she is only 3, but keep in mind, it's not going to be fun. Co parenting, is hell. This may have been a mini rant, sorry about that, but I hope maybe it helped.

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I don't honk there's anything wrong with it, I was 18 and my boyfriend at the time was 24 when we started dating, we are now married. But yes, keep in mind there are responsibilities that come with dating someone with a child. There will in fact always be another woman involved (to a degree) in your life. You may even have to learn to coexist with her yourself and with time you may have to help with his daughter as well. Also keep in mind with a child involved that means her feelings are too, if there's any bond formed and things don't work out their will be pain possibly for both of you. Really think about those things ahead of time, if you can face it then I say go for it!(:

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