Home Sick 💔

Hi Ladies.. I need a little help. I had moved in with my boyfriend whom he lives with his grandparents. Its been 8 months and i can not seem to get comfortable. I still feel very home sick.. i love him amd his family is very sweet! except his grandma i caught her talking shit about me on the phone to someone. but i'm always polite, i buy things for the house i cook and clean for everyone.. but still miss home so much. In a way i dont feel welcomed.. when i cook my food gets thrown out the next day, if i forget a landry load she takes it out and leaves it so it gets a funky smell. i know its just details but they feel so malicious. i dont want to make my boyfriend feel bad but i want to go home :( any other girls going through the same??