I can't narrow down a state to move to?

It's really starting to piss me off. I'm in Cali and I'm done with being here. Born and raised and done lol. I've made different types of posts on here to help narrow it down but the list is so long that I dont think it was narrowed down at all. There's Massachusets, New Jersey, Washington, Connecticut (that's new), and Michigan (which is also new). Then there is Colorado where most of my siblings moved to, but I don't want to move somewhere just because family is there. And lets be realistic I can't afford to fly all these places with my 9 month old just to see what they're all about. And to make matters worse I have to move this year. Idk what to do. Sorry a rant I needed to get out.