problem! stopping birth control to ttc

Stopped birth control in February after being on it for 7 years in the hopes of ttc for the first time, had regular AF as soon as I got off the pill. This cycle has been 55 days, AF has not come and no BFP, been testing once a week for a month now. I've been cramping every single day for 55 days, what could be the problem? The dr refuses to see me until it's been 90 days.