I'm kinky and my boyfriend is not. I have always been into sex toys, BDSM, multiple other fetishes and anything that has to do with good sex. However, my boyfriend is not open to anything besides anal (coincidentally I hate anal) I have tried to talk to him and be very communicative about what I like during sex but he always seems to blame it on me asking too much of him and never being satisfied. To me, sex should be always changing and evolving and nurtured during the relationship and having the same routine is definitely not my style. We've been together a year and we have gotten into quite the routine, even my orgasms are very routine (same position, same hand, same length) he doesn't like going down on me and hates the idea of a vibrator. I don't know what to do, is this hopeless for a future?