I am really sorry that this is a bit of a feeling sorry for myself post but does anyone else feel like getting pregnant is something that happens to other people?

My husband and I have been trying for 16 months now and no joy and I am more and more heart broken every month. People are putting up on Facebook all the time about their pregnancies and it is just getting to me....especially the 'whoops, it was an accident' ones :-(

A friend of mine came off the pill six months ago and has managed to get it out of her system and pregnant already despite being on it longer than me

I know everyone is different but I am just so sad hearing about other people's pregnancies and if I say anything to my dh then he just says I should be happy they have managed it and not upset and it will happen eventually which sounds like the right thing but just makes me feel worse

Sorry this is negative but I just need someone to talk to who understands :-(