Not pointing, clapping, or waving

Bree

So baby will be one at the end of this month and hasn't clapped and has pointed and waved once each. I'm doing my best not to freak out, but we all know how hard that is, especially as a FTM. All I've found all over the internet (curse you, Dr. Google!) is that not pointing is an early indication of ASD or some other delay. His twelve month well baby visit is early next month (I've already got my questions written down for doc), but I can't help but be concerned now.

He only follows simple commands about half the time, but I'm not sure if the times he doesn't is because he doesn't feel like it or doesn't understand. Or perhaps the times he does follow commands are simple flukes.

Anyone else in this position or been on this position in the past?