So if it's a boy I wanted to name my baby after my papa. James Ray. Well my ex husband named his baby with the middle name James so of course out of the question (I don't want my daughter to become confused) so I asked my baby daddy to concider the name Ray. Wich is a family name. I've got at least 4 or 5 cousins with the name Ray. And he said No. Because apparently it will tie our baby with my ex's baby.

Cant name the baby after baby daddy (Kyle) because he is jealous of my trans friend in the other side of the country (Kai originally Karissa)

Can't name the baby after my other grandfather, and his (John) because he doesn't like my step dad.

Can't name the baby after my dad (Douglas or Michael) because he doesn't like my dad or my brother.

Can't name it Andrew (after my dead uncle and my little brother) because 5 years ago I slept with a man named Andrew

I'm at a loss. I feel like I might cry if I find out it's a boy.