dose it hurt your first time???

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Does having sex your first time hurt I've never done it before and I am actually scared of it and I dont know why help please??

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Girls always think about it hurting. It should not hurt your first time. If it hurts, something is wrong. You'll feel pressure, which is normal, so it may be uncomfortable because of that. 
Make sure you're relaxed. If your nervous you'll tense up and it'll hurt when you try penetration. 
Use lube. Really, use it. 
Do lots of foreplay! Fingering, oral, etc. It'll make you wet and more relaxed.
If it hurts then you do whatever you need to do to make it not. Use more lube, try to relax, change position, have him go slower, whatever it is.

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I get confused when people say "it always hurts the first time" my SO and i decided going slow in our relationship was the best way to go. ...so we did things like fingering, hand jobs etc earlier on and when we did decide to do it,  it didn't hurt (except a bit of pressure which i found stimulating) ....i guess it was because we worked our way up to it. .plus I've done dancing for 13 years and am fairly flexible. On the other hand i had a friend who said she cried (but she kept going idk why she thought that was smart).....but my advice,  just work your way up to it. If it hurts make sure he doesn't push u too far (pun intended) why fast track foreplay anyways?  😂😂 .. don't stress about it though, relax and have fun xx

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I'm a virgin too and I'm scared it's going to hurt

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Mmmm. I wouldn't said it "hurt" as much as it was ucomfortable. Honestly, right after it happens you forget all about it lol.

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For me, it actually felt really good. I had no pain, discomfort, a weird feeling, or anything like that. I did bleed just a little bit, but it didn't hurt

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It was weird feeling

dose it hurt your first time???

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