when does it stop hurting

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When does it stop hurting? My SO and I had sex last Friday for both our first times then again on Sunday and then again today, but it still hurts for me. Like sometimes it'll feel good but it still hurts to the point where it's not super pleasureable, when does this end? And I'm always very turned on when we have sex

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Do you use a lubricant?

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Well for me it hurt the first week (had sex about 4 times), then I didn't have sex again for over a month and it hurt less the next few times, then went a few months and it hurt a little less and I did it like twice a day for a week, and it stopped hurting by the end of the week. Long distance relationship lol. But anyway part of what I needed was healing time in between sex and part of it was just my body needed to get used to sex. No matter how wet I was it still hurt. So idk...like keep powering through but also don't do it every day I guess

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It took me about a month of sex once or twice a week before it stopped hurting.

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Generally 69 helps me a lot, makes my body open up more and it's super pleasurable.

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Try to do a lot of fore play before having sex. The more aroused you are, the less it will hurt for you. So just relax, take your time, and use lube! Good luck!👍🏼

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It should start to feel better after a few minutes of pain... that's how it is for me at least. Just relax and let your natural lube work its magic

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It was uncomfortable for me for 3 weeks. Even with lube.

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I've been having sex for 7 months now and it still hurts starting out. We have to use lube and just go super slow at first. I've found that being on top helps me because I can control things until I've adjusted, and usually after 10 minutes or so I'm relatively ready to go. It can still be a little iffy even after that though, so I just use as much lube as I need and tell my BF when something hurts, so we can try something else. I've heard from other girls that it also takes them quite a while to adjust. Honestly, the best advice I can give is to not be afraid to use lube, foreplay (for real, it can help open you up. Maybe have him finger you a bit to start, if you're into that), and communicate with him. The most ideal thing is to be in a situation where you don't feel like you have to rush. Just take it slow, get comfortable, and work with each other to find ways of making it feel good.

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