Friends with benefits?

Question

So I really fell for this guy and he's a grade ahead of me and we talked for a bit but he said he doesn't think we'd be a good couple. Then he wants to be friends with benefits and me being abstinent the only benefit I have to give is nudes (not comfortable with that). I still really like him though, what should I do?

Answer

I have to say no for a few reasons. I did the friends with benifits thing before dating my partner and I've been with my partner for two years. HOWEVER, we went into it in a very different way. It was a much more mutual conversation. If you like this person romantically and you're only trying to please them for a chance, don't do it. This is sounding very one sided and that just doesn't work in these types of situations. Also, you don't want to have sex. So don't. Don't even risk it with the nudes. It's beyond risky. That takes a lot more trust than you two people have. For most people, I flat out say dont do it.

All of this just doesn't sound like a good idea in your particular predicament.

Answer

If you like him, then the friends with benefits will not end well. He obviously just wants you for one thing so I'd definitely steer clear.

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