Found out my boyfriend of nearly 3.5 years showed a very explicit video of us having sex, reverse cowgirl, to his older (35-40, both straight males) pervy cousin's when we had just started going out. WWYD? We're 25+26 & live together.

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I'd be pissed, frankly. It would shatter my trust and I don't think I could stay with a person like that.

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Why would tell his mom be an option? So she knows you two make porn together for yourselves to watch later and he had/has no respect for you and your relationship's privacy? Obviously I can't read your explanation in the poll choice, but telling his mom shouldn't even be an option no matter your reasoning. You're adults. Handle it like one and either be mad and try to put it behind you or move out and move on.

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It is completely up to you. Personally I think if it was that long ago I wouldn't break up with my SO because of it. It's all about what your comfortable with

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Weren't you aware he was recording? 
And even if so, you guys "just started dating", 
wouldn't you be a bit iffy about that? 
I mean, you can't let him record and expect it's for his eyes only. Every guys different, but you guys just started dating and I wouldn't feel comfortable about that at all. You should confront him about it and ask him to justify why he did that. He shouldn't have shown anyone unless you consented to it.

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That's kinda creepy.  I would feel so uncomfortable around his cousins

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That’s disgusting... if you haven’t already confront him about it... if he refuses to talk about it leave

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I would leave

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I would leave it alone...

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I wish I could see the rest of the "tell his mum" part 😂 sorry lol
Seriously though, I'd be fuming with him I don't give a dam how long ago it was!

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I was going to go with thmy in the dog house one, but there's no way to really fix the situation bc it was so long ago. However, hats doesn't make him off the hook, I would still be pissed and mortified. So he would be getting cursed out bc that is not cool on any type of level. Then he'd be on "punishment", and I use this word lately bc it depends on the type of person you are. Some withhold sex all together, some just deny the other the ability to join in while you get your rocks off, that part is totally up to you. But seriously, I would make sure that he never thinks it's cool to do that again. What you make and do for each other is specifically for y'all eyes only. Let's just pray that the peevy cousins don't look or speak to you differently, is avoid them like the plague.

Found out my boyfriend of nearly 3.5 years showed a very explicit video of us having sex, reverse cowgirl, to his older (35-40, both straight males) pervy cousin's when we had just started going out. WWYD? We're 25+26 & live together.

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