Am I being a bridezilla?

Em • • 23 & married • NH mama • Karson - December 9th 2018 • Margo - October 22nd 2020 • Instagram - emmily.harp
Ok, so I'm getting married June 29th.. my mother in law decided to take it upon herself to make the bouquets for the girls.. I hate them, they're not even our colors!!! She had agreed that fake flowers that look real we're fine. I was supposed to go with her to pick them out.. but nope she decided to send me a picture of them once she had already made them. They are not at all what I want or what I had imagined for my wedding. Now not only is it the flowers for the girls but it's also the guys boutinierrs  . She then also told me that she was making mine and I wasn't allowed to see it until the wedding day cause it's a surprise... like hellll no. She has also "accidentally" started calling this her wedding. She also had decided what our center pieces will be even though we already bought ours.  I don't know what to do because I know what I want for the flowers. And I am buying myself a bouquet so I can save it cause we're not freezing the top layer of the cake... HELP. Here are pictures of what she made and what I want to do, and our color scheme.