My Boyfriend doesn't want me to touch him

Hello, it's my first time posting on eve. I need some help. My new boyfriend doesn't want me to touch him in his privates- no hand jobs, no blow jobs, no sex. We started dating pretty recently and we never had that "honeymoon" phase or anything... He says I make him horny but then he never wants anything ... What do I do!? I've expressed that I like doing things and I don't mind oral sex in case he was worried but still he doesn't want anything. I don't want to force him into anything though...