Why do dads become helpless when they are needed most!!! I've been preparing for a road trip for 2days. Today I did all the laundry cleaned the entire house and packed everything for our 9 month old. You would think my husband could have given her a bath got her food or us food cleaned the kitchen anything while I was packing no he was "watching" our daughter and watching tv shows then got onto me for taking so long to get out the door. I'm fighting off a cold and I just had my c Section tear international 9 months later because he was too ruff in the sheets two days ago. I'm supposed to be taking it easy! I'm sleeping in the car the whole way there and he can drive in silence. 🙄 He's normally so helpful unless he needs to be.