Reflux: attention mommies :/

Not to pose a scare.. but this is more informative more than anything...since all of our babies are 4/5 months old-- my hubby is in law enforcement and we had a 4 month old die from spit up/reflux the dad was home with baby all day, put baby to bed-- mom came home and found baby dead. This is coming from a mom who has a baby who has extreme reflux to the point of having weight gaining problems, from not absorbing enough nutrition instead it comes up and out. (Basically looks like vomit). Anywho, keep an eye on ALL those babies, but more so any that reflux really bad. (((This was not my child, but someone else's that called 911)))