We have all been through the "ugly stage" in our lives. Mine lasted from 5th-7th grade😩😩 I was only allowed to wear mascara although I did sneak eyeliner and lip liner (super chola back in the day). My mom allowed me to wear mascara starting middle school, she said it was bad for my skin and I don't need to look any older than I already did being so "developed". My dad let me wear make up whenever I wanted to as long as I didn't look like a clown. His reasoning is if it makes me feel confident so be it he believes I was raised to "act right" , my mom felt I should be confident in my own skin and "act my age".