husband and family !?!?

Gulum
When you don't know what to talk about with the husband?
All happened last night I know I made the argument happen but I have kept it in to keep it peace, 
So in feb he went back home not been back home for 5 and half years I didn't go it was just him so we went Out buying things for his family which it's not small family to mum and dad 2 brothers to other family members so we spent 2k AUS money, his ticked cost 1000 and he took with him 1500 AUS money 
Before he lefted you got all his toiletry things and spare clothes from underwear to socks took 8 pairs of shoes and his new phone 7 plus 
So when he came back he had in his suitcase 3 pairs of shoes few tops no socks no underwear only his old ones 
And NO IPHONE 7PLUS !!!!! I was like WTF are you for real I asked him about it he said I couldn't back it up so just gave that 
I'm so fkin arngy we work so hard for our shit to the point we don't see each other I would be so a shame to even take my brothers or sisters shit should be proud of what I already got 
So know he knows how I feel arngy his like you control me well fuck you I won't do shit today he had a DR app did he go NO !! He slept in 
So know I don't know what to do just very heart broken and just staying out of his way 
I know family is family but to a point ☝️