Can't Stop Panicking

Emma
I apologize in advance for description but need to get this out. Last December, I was having sex and at some point his penis came out and accidentally went all the way into my butt hole really fast. It hurt sooo bad I screamed out in pain and actually bled there for the next day. When we went to have sex again, I couldn't stop thinking of last time and started to get nervous during sex. We stopped having sex because I could never relax after that. I didn't have sex with anyone else since then and we both decided to pick it up again this month. We started doing it in his car. I was fine prior but as soon as he put it in (not butt hole), I immediately started panicking and crying. Idk what's wrong with me and why I can't relax anymore. I'm not sure whether we need to try other positions or just stop doing it with him because I've never had trouble enjoying sex and now he's thinking we shouldn't do it anymore if I keep responding like that. Any thoughts or opinions?

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