I really need your opinions ladies. I have cut my parents in and out of my life for the past 4 yrs. Well just recently, she has really gotten on my nerves and has been doing her best to start issues with my SO. My SO will only message my mom if he notices I'm getting super irritated with her. She will then proceed to try and start an argument with him. If she comes over and he doesn't say hi bc he's busy, she calls him disrespectful and calls him the scum of the Earth. My SO and I have had a few heated arguments when she does this and I have told her many times to stop bugging me about small things as to avoid fighting.

Well this past time he messaged her asking her to give us some space, she messaged me and told me to tell my SO to stop talking to her. Him and I both thought it was best that he blocks her. Well, she ended up going off on me bc he blocked her and went on a rant about how he's scum blah blah blah.

I am at a lost of what to do. I'm tired of her trying to come between me and my SO and trying to control our lives. I also don't wanna tell her that I need space bc then I'll get told off.

What would you ladies do or suggest I do?