I'm not posting on here anymore. It was supposed to be a place of support and understand but it is in fact absolutely not. If you make a bad mistake, if you do something wrong, DO NOT post on here and ask for help. DO NOT express your feelings on the situation of your mistakes. Because if you are in the wrong. The people on here will let you know, how wrong you were. They'll tell you to get over it because it was your fault. That's it. They don't sugar coat the blade for you. They'll tell you how stupid the situation was. They don't know you. You do. You know what you did and that's all that matters and from this I learned never to ask for help on how to move on or understand a situation. I'd rather be on my own than ask for help here ever again. Is this place full of love? Yeah. But not if you're the one in the wrong and you're the one that made the mistake. Oh no.

Edit: let me make it clear, that you can help someone who made a mistake without being an asshole to them. Point blank period. If your friend asks you your opinion on their shoes and you don't like them, just say "eh I don't really like them" not "they're fucking ugly. Get rid of them. Also no one cares"

Edit 2: never asked for sugar coated lies. I asked for "well what you did was kind of wrong, think about it this way . . . ." Not "seriously? What you did was wrong. Get a grip and get over it. You were being petty, and a bitch . . .etc"

Edit 3: I realise I am just venting with these edits now, i feel like people aren't understanding what I'm saying. The brutal truth shouldn't be you being an asshole with it, rubbing it in my face that I was wrong. Also why does the truth have to be brutal? Why would you want to make it brutal? "You were wrong in this situation, but here is how to fix it and move on" works just as fine, k thanks.

Edit 4: No one is commenting on this thread anymore. These edits make me feel better. What is life.

Edit 5: I now realize that this is the exact reason why people don't ask for help.