I am going to be booking a spa day here soon. I have a massage therapy included in it. I will be having a facial and hot stones and everything. It is my first time though and my husband is doing it with me. When we call we plan on requesting female masseuses. My husband because he isn't comfortable with being rubbed by another man, he is not against anything, just thinks it might be weird. I am not comfortable with a male because 1. My husband is there and I just find that rude to be touched by another man even though not sexually with my man right there. And 2. I'm just not comfortable with my first massage being a man. Is it rude of us to do this though?