af one day late and BFN :(

Ka

Katie
I went to the OBGYN for my annual and I mentioned that I was a day late so they gave me a test and it was negative. It was my first time seeing this doctor and she also told me that now that I'm at the 6 month mark of active trying that I am technically considered "infertile." This is so heartbreaking. She just told me to try to stop thinking about it but is that possible?! Has anyone had been able to stop thinking about it?! Also, WHERE is af and WHY is she doing this to me?!? The doctor assured me that the test could not be a false negative because their tests are so strong 😞
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Ni

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6 months does not mean you're infertile. It can take a healthy couple 6 months to a year to conceive. I can't understand it when people say don't think about. Do you use ovulation strips? My boyfriend and I started trying last April. We had to stop for 3?months from June as I was really poorly. Fell pregnant in December (used conceive plus then). I miscarried in February but I'm pregnant again, only took 2 cycles which surprised me as took a while last time. I did use OPKs after the miscarriage though and they 100% helped, along with the pre seed I think.  Don't give up, try those. Baby dust xxx

Ni

Nic • Apr 25, 2017
Keep the faith hun. Sending lots of baby dust xxx

Ka

Katie • Apr 25, 2017
I do light exercise 3-4 times a week

Ni

Nic • Apr 25, 2017
We still only have a 30% chance each time, which is rubbish. Do you exercise? Xxx

Ve

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I'm sorry you are struggling. It sucks. You could have low HCG. Maybe you are having a chemical. There are so many things it could be. Just stay strong! Baby dust to you