My husband has low sperm. I know cause 4 years ago we took a lab test and it said so, and 1 month ago we took a home test and it said so. Buuuutttt, he is still in denial. He said they lab test was wrong cause I "helped out" and of course saliva kills sperm. WTF. I wanted to wait in the waiting room but he insisted that I come in the room with him, I just watched  a bit then offered a hand. (Without mouth) but you can't tell him that. Then he said he did the home test wrong cause he feel asleep and left the sample out for 20-30 mins. But when I read you can leave the sample out for up to 3 hrs(on the test box) he didn't want to hear it . I understand that men are more sensitive about their soldiers then they let on, but come on. I am doing EVERYTHING on my end and he should do the same. I am so sick and tired of every one looking at me as if I am the problem. When I know it's him. The family is constantly discussing what I should do, and when I asked him did he tell about his home test results, he says, he just forgot. But you can keep telling me to tell everyone about all my OB appointments. I have always had a good idea when I ovulate, (we drive trucks and have been home during this fertile time) so i took an ovulation test, bingo, positive. Of course we do the do. But of course now I am feeling bummed cause he hears his cousin and his wife are 5 weeks with their second. Low and behold the family turns to me and even my husband and says "we need to get on the ball". NO, he needs to get on the ball. I bought vitamins for him and his soldiers, you think you would take at least one. Nope nothing. I see the want to start a family in him too, but honey you have to get real with yourself. But I also feel if I LET it be known he has an issue he will be pissed with me. I just wish everyone stop blaming me for not being pregnant yet, I wish he would get real with himself, but as always I pray this is the month for a sticky healthy full term baby. PEACE (Positive Energy Always Conquers Evil)