how do you know you're doing the right thing?
So I don't really know how to begin this so sorry if this is a little muddled up.
I'm 21 and he's 22. I was on the pill and we've just found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant. We've been together for a year, he's told me he doesn't want kids for 5 years. He doesn't want me to keep the baby. I don't want to have a termination. (I've had one before and I knew it was the wrong thing then and know for sure it's the wrong thing now) I want my baby. I know that with my 3 jobs, support from my friends and family that I could do it. I'm renting now with super low rent, if I work hard before the baby comes then I'll have enough money to support us. The government will help, if worse comes to worse. I know I can do it but the stress from my parter telling me I'm so stupid to even consider having the baby is making me doubt the decision I've made. He says I'm not thinking of anyone but myself because of my history of having a termination. He doesn't think we are menatally, financially or physically able to raise this baby. He simply does not want the baby and thinks it's unfair to make him grow up and be a dad right now. He said if I keep the baby it'll be too stressful for him and we most likely last as a couple. I'm so lost with what to do or how to feel. Anyone else going through this or has gone through this? I'm so stuck.
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