I have always had a not so great "relationship"(if you can even call it that) with my MIL. She is a very hard person to get along with. She believes she should always be first on my husbands life no matter the circumstances. When she complains that we don't visit, she assumes it's me causing that. It's not, my husband hates hearing her complain about everything. She is widowed once and divorced twice yet knows what is best for our marriage 🙄. Every time I try to go out of my way to form a bond with her, she goes overboard with the calls,texts,emails. I work between 45-50 hrs a week along with taking care of my kids most of the time since my husband work 7/12s. I am so tired of pretending to want to be around her when I can barely stand being in the same room as her. Just a little rant so I don't blow up on her!