Feel horrible, so mad!

My 3 week old has been awake for the past 3 hours and ate 3 times in that time. My husband just wanted me to let him cry but I cant do that. I am so so tired, I got so angry at the baby. I wanted to just put him down and leave. It is at these times I resent breast feeding. He is so reliant on me and my husband thinks there is nothing he can do to help.