yalls opinion should i be understanding or am i right

Br
My fiancé is almost never home , when i need help with things ill have to wait until he finally takes a off day and it's frustrating, he makes his own schedule because hes a barber at his dad shop. And chooses to work everyday of the week. He got suspended from school i figured i finally have some help to get my truck fixed, have him move furniture thats been sitting in the middle of our living room because its to heavy for me etc etc but he was up at 7am i asked him why so early and he going to work 😩 instead of helping before work he chooses to go in early now from open to close , its not fair to me he worrys only about work and school while i do the same plus everything else around the house such as dinner cleaning washing bills etc and homework I would understand if he was the bread winner and i was a stay at home wife but im not