Ok so here's the thing. I'm against drugs. And I mean most drugs. I don't smoke cigarettes or weed, I used to drink a lot, but that has stopped since I have primary custody of my daughter. I don't take Tylenol or ibprofin unless I'm in a much pain I can't handle it. The only reason I took my antidepressants is because my ex husband court ordered it. I was doing perfectly fine without them he just thought I would change my mind about getting my daughter if I had that standing in my way. The only time I drink caffiene is when I need energy.

I dont expect others to be the same. In fact when I got with my "boyfriend" i found out he was smoking pot and had acid hidden in his closet. (Literally) and all I asked of him was that he didn't do it around my daughter and that he didn't do the hard shit around me. (He had me believing he could do it once as be done for a while) and when he lost his job, I asked him not to smoke pot until he can get a job because I was pregnant and working against doctors orders. He agreed to it, until his "friend" told him I was trying to change him.

Do you think it was wrong of me to ask him to "change" I feel I was "too hard" on him and that's why he left. I dnt think he wasn't ready to be a father and I feel I forced it on him.