I've asked some guys out and am always rejected. I just wanted to know what you guys thought. Should girls or boys ask?

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I don't think anyone "should" ask anyone. There's no rules to asking someone out so long as they're not already in a relationship

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I have never asked out a guy. Doing so I think gives guys the upper hand. They decide if they want to use you. Reject you. Embarrassment, it also makes you look desperate. Focus on yourself. Finish college. Get a good job. Then worry about dating. Takes people a lot longer to grow up. And trust me you are sparing yourself so much heartache, bs and drama and getting used and abused. I wish I would have stayed single. Become a strong independent woman. Don't depend on anyone for your happiness. A man nor. Woman complete you. You complete yourself. Crappy guys will think she's high maintenance etc. The right one will admire and appreciate it. In the meal time keep yourself busy. Get a job. Volunteer. Feed the homeless at a soup kitchen. Read to the blind. Hang out with friends and family. Walk dogs. Babysit. Learn a language Etc. There is more to life than having a boyfriend or girlfriend or being popular etc. I wish I would have cared less about that crap. And stayed single until my 30s and spared myself so much crap.

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I asked guys out first a lot of times and there's no big deal, some told me that confidence is hot and they're surprised but glad I did it first bc they weren't sure If I liked them and most of them thought I would rejected them on a hearbeat. I'm certain that I would have missed a lot of opportunities to dated some amazing guys if I didn't reach to them first. And yes I had two guys that rejected me before and life goes on! It wasn't like I was asking them to marry me hahaha so don't feel bad if they don't like you is their loss. 😋😁

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Either way. There are no set rules. 🤷‍♀️

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I have asked a boy out and it was no big deal. I have asked another boy out who rejected me only because the boy was supposed to make the first move. Personally I don't have an opinion but I know some guys have a problem with it.

I've asked some guys out and am always rejected. I just wanted to know what you guys thought. Should girls or boys ask?

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