Is it cheating?

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So i'm in a relationship with my bf of 5 years and whenever i go to parties with my friends and im drunk, making out with girls is just fun for me. I dont take it seriously, its iust legit FUN, and hot but yeah. If i sound crazy then please knock some sense into me lol. Im a light hearted girl who is really free spirited so that explains why i fail to consider it cheating

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Just because it's girls doesn't make it different than making out with guys at a party.

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It's all up to how your partner feels about it. The right thing to do is to tell him and ask him if he's ok with it. Some guys don't care, others would be heart broken and concider it cheating.

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Does you're boyfriend know? If he does and is okay with it then NO its not cheating. If he does NOT know and you feel you have to hide it then YES it is cheating

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How would you feel about your boyfriend making out with other people at parties?

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Cheating is but isn't a loose terms. Cheating is breaking the trust and "terms" of your relationship. How does your boyfriend feel about this? Does he know?

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If you have to ask, it is.

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You didn't say in your story if your bf is at these parties and if he's aware and is ok with it or not. Like seriously, That's literally the one piece of info we all need to answer the poll.

Like yes it is if he doesn't know but no if he's okay with it

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I mean how would it be if someone was bisexual? Then you would consider that more. If your partner doesn't like it then I suggest you stop but if he sees no big deal then it should be okay. Me personally, I wouldn't do that. But then again I don't see me ever feeling attracted to someone else drunk or not. But it's yals decision

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For me, it would 100% be. Kissing, flirting, play around with anyone other than my bf on any level is cheating, no matter of gender or if it's "for fun" or not. But I guess it depends on your relationship terms.

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Ask your man. If he considers it cheating, it is. If not, it isn't. You two make the rules for your relationship.

Best of luck 😘

Is it cheating?

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