text from bf.. is this picture sexual? UPDATE#2!!!!
I posted this on fb and I said "fun fact: I have 8 piercings in my ears" is this pic too sexual?
Update:
This is the part that's hard about "just leaving" he's not an abusive person we've been together for 3 1/2 years and he went through a traumatic time and we're in the middle of a moving situation. No the way he acted wasn't ok but he knows that. The difficult part is that he's aware what he's doing wrong but not in the moment. It hurts. But I do love him and I want to help him I know he needs me. Not a lot of people will agree and tell me I'm blind to it but I see it. I shut it down usually. I tell him how I feel. This is a text the next morning after we talked about it already. Anyone could say he's lying but he's so genuine when he apologizes even when he doesn't stick to it. Humans have a complicated set of emotions and I know he's not abusive he's never raised a hand to me. His dad acts the same way so he probably gets that way from his dad too. I told him I'm not going to marry him or have a family with him til he gets his attitude in check when we have an argument. But I appreciate all of your concern.
UPDATE#2: I never expected this.. now, we both sat down and talked about how we both don't like porn and don't want eachother to watch it and that was that. We would agree on how we think it destroys the intimacy (don't bash my reasonings for not liking porn everyone's relationship is different just please respect my decision). Now I know why he's been flipping the switch on me. Saying "why don't you just break up with me then" getting mad at me when he does something like what I've shown in those texts. Getting mad as fuck for "staring" at some dude while he's driving (when I wasn't) even the other day he got mad that I was staring at some guy that I didn't even see!!! Being mouthy. I do know how to stand up for myself and have many many times yet I've stayed because I love him and know he was going through a hard time. He's been watching porn in the NEXT ROOM for god knows how long.. the day I found out I lost my phone and needed to use his to call it and his phone opened up to the settings part of the clear history part for safari.. I had to pry it out of him he fucking lied and it made me sick. He knew damn well how strongly I felt about that shit and he was laying next to me we were cuddling and he decides "oh I'm gonna go in the bathroom and watch porn".. I've NEVER turned him down. If anything he turns me down !!! I have great communication when it comes to sex and he would just get mad when I would even ask what he wants to do since I always pick. I told him this is the one thing I thought he would never do and said if he does it again I won't even think twice to fucking LEAVE. No one disrespects me that way. I could handle his mouthy ass but not this stupid shit. I'm hurt. I won't go as far as to say it was "cheating" but I do feel cheated in a way. I made a promise to myself that I will leave the next time he he treats me wrong in any type of way. Even if he's mouthy. I can't take that shit anymore. Every loving thing I've done for this man... he doesn't even appreciate it and turns to porn. HAH. I don't play that shit. He has the nerve to watch porn knowing how much I hate it plus agreeing to not watching it and doing it anyway while I'm right here to do it in person. I've never felt more disgusted with my body..
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