Should i feel wrong?

I feel like this is ridiculous to even mention but I'm gonna put this out there... I'm the kind for physical contact and attention. I dont particularly like or enjoy masturbation. I prefer my man to be there whether it be phone sex or the real thing... he on the other hand constantly masterbates and i understand he has his needs but i feel if you're with someone then theres no reason for it... you have them, save yourself for them... although him being a man I'm sure he has his reasons. If it's that he wants to make sure he can last longer or morning wood (we dont live together yet) but when his excuse is "you werent here" i honestly feel a bit insulted... me being a sexaddict i know the want and need but i save myself for him rather than masturbate because i enjoy him and his affection and everything that goes along with it... some of you might be quick to judge and say that he's just doing his thing but how would u like it if your significant other turned to u and simply stated "well you weren't here..."