People who are familiar with PS4 messaging and gaming.... Some girl created a group and only added my husband and herself and messaged him at 12:48 AM saying, "Hey there :)". Does this happen randomly or does he know her?

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I don't know much about ps4. I turned it on to use netflix and a notification popped up that said my husband had a message. Confused, I opened it. He's cheated on me in the past a lot and I thought we were finally over it now that we have a 4 month old daughter. Help. 😔

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As far as I know (could be wrong, I dont use it a whole lot) people send requests just like on facebook. So he may not know her in person, but I believe he would have had to actually add her or approve a request to be added to her group. Again, I,may be wrong, but I think thats how it works

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My husband plays his PS4 a lot. He has lots of friends, they all play together. Most of them he doesn't know in person and he only talks to them during and about the game. You just add them to your friends. I wouldn't be concerned especially if you have free access to his PS4. It doesn't sound like he is trying to hide anything. I personally would just mention the message and ask who she is.

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Agreed with others. They have to be friends on there in order to be messaging.

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If they have played online together before shes probably just trying to play that game with him, I wouldn't be worried about it. 
P.s by playing a game together they probably were in the same lobby online both have mics and started chatting while playing added eachother on PSN to play in the future.

I have plenty of friends added on PSN that I met from meeting in the same game or match lobby.

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He could know her because my husband adds his friends but as well as he has ppl he doesn't know

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Update:: he told me he doesn't even know he could message on there. I could totally tell he's lying. Awesome.

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She could live in another state so the timing could be different for her

My brothers a gamer and people message him at 4 in the morning growing up seeing gaming I can tell gamers play all hours of the night so her messaging at that time is normal

Ask him about it I'm sure it's nothing as long as he doesn't flirt you're ok she's just a gamer friend

People who are familiar with PS4 messaging and gaming.... Some girl created a group and only added my husband and herself and messaged him at 12:48 AM saying, "Hey there :)". Does this happen randomly or does he know her?

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