Cheating?

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I watched porn first the first time today and I have a boyfriend. I feel so guilty. I hate myself for doing it and I just want to kill myself. I'm a terrible girlfriend

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It's a bit of an over reaction. You've been hanging around here way too long. There's nothing wrong with porn

He probably watches it too

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Hunny, it's okay. One) it's natural.. 90% sure your boyfriend watches it too. Two) don't beat yourself up over it. If you think it's cheating, don't do it again. Three) talk to your boyfriend about it! And see what his opinion is.

It'll be ok sweets. ❤️

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Def not cheating. If u both mutually agree not to watch porn then try not to do it again. If u both mutually agree to watch porn (either alone or together) than go for it. But def not cheating.

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He will probably like that

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Lol, no. Not cheating, 100% normal.

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You're not a terrible person, I agree that it is fairly normal for people to view porn at least once in their life. The curiosity always gets the best of them. I do however feel porn in a relationship is wrong, as you're taking the sexual desire and energy you should be focusing on your SO and focusing it on other people. If you feel really guilty and awful, talk to you SO, tell him why you did it, how you feel, that you won't do it again, etc. Most guys don't really care and will just laugh it off, but if it's eating you up, you should tell him. And then depending on the conversation, agree to not do it again to remain mentally and physically faithful to your SO. But do not kill yourself over this.

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You're not a terrible person for watching porn. My boyfriend and I watch it together sometimes and he even gets turned on when he knows I've been looking at porn online. Watching porn isn't necessarily cheating and you don't have to feel guilty for it.

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