Advice???

My Boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years now.. We have two beautiful girls together. A 1 year old who turns 2 in September and a almost 6 month old coming May 11th.

However, unfortunately nethier of our daughters were planned due to the fact we have been on and off for the past 3 years. Our first daughter he up and left me when I was pregnant.. Didn't really hear from him until after she was born, which is where we were on and off between me and his girlfriend at the time. . in that time when my first daughter was 6 months old, that's when I concieved our second daughter.. He's been with me ever since. Taking care of the girls and supporting me.

Now, that our second daughter is 6 months.. My Boyfriend wants to have another baby. I however don't. He begs me on a daily basis.. And it's not that having two children is hard because honestly, my girls are the quietest, calmest, happiest girls in the world. I get compliments everyday when I go out about how well-mannered my first daughter is and how happy my second daughter is.

He wants a third for 2 reasons: A) To have a baby that's planned and B)To try for a boy.

I agree with where he's coming from, I just don't feel personally ready and not ready for the judgemental comments considering I'm only turning 23 in 24 days and he's 25 turning 26.

He says I'm being selfish... Is that wrong of me????

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